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Through honest conversation the mind is challenged to see things differently, especially when the words touch that inner knowing of truth that we all have.

When observing from the heart we connect the dots between what is true and what is fear, shadow, doubt, or whatever it is that might be holding us back from living the life we want to live or being the person we want to be.

We humans tend to underestimate and judge ourselves out of fear of not being good enough and tell ourselves all sorts of stories.

Our connection to our soul, once clear, helps us to hear and listen to our inner voice, our inner knowing of what is right for us.

When we go from judging ourselves and comparing ourselves to the rest of the world, to accepting ourselves and owning our light AND shadow - a new door opens. We can become aware of these internal conversations and where they come from and begin the process of changing our minds.

My purpose is to guide you in this process, to offer non judgemental and loving support, for you to find YOUR own answers.

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I just love love, always have and always will. I've tried to find it anywhere and everywhere, this oh so beautiful, romantic and magical love. 
 

I've always walked around with this hole in my heart, this longing to be one with someone, to belong. I would never be fully happy, no matter how much someone else said they loved me. It just never felt enough.

All my life I've been searching, in boyfriends, addictions, friends, food, none of which could give me the love I felt I lacked.

It took me years of looking for it in all the wrong places until I felt there were no options left, I was just born to be this melancholic, deeply sad person.

Funny enough no one would see this on the outside, as I'd become an expert in hiding my feelings, eventually even for myself.

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The more I tried to fit in in order to be accepted, the more I lost track of my true self.

Years later it dawned on me that if I didn't accept myself, I probably didn't expect anyone else to do so either. It turned out to be a self fulfilling prophecy that I created simply by believing it to be true.
I took the path of uncovering all that I thought I was, in order to remember who I truly am. It's proven to be a life long journey and I am discovering more and more parts of myself along the way.

The biggest change is that I don't judge myself for it anymore, I simply love all there is, as much as I would love anyone else.

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So what is this love? And why do some people seem to attract love with every step they take, while others seem to have such a hard time? 

And what about you? Are you living in love?

© 2020 Lolalone

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